Authentic Presence & Deep Intimacy:
A Roadmap to Self-Realisation and Greater Impact in your Relationships, Work and Life.
Whether you’re single and seeking a deeply fulfilling relationship, or in a partnership wanting to reignite passion and intimacy—this work transforms how you show up in love.
Hi, I'm Ian! My deepest passion, for as long as I can remember, has been to ignite and catalyse in others their deepest desires for love and authentic empowerment.
I do this by helping you connect with your truest Self first, then supporting you to bring that authentic truth—with courage and humility—to your intimate relationships and every connection where you seek to make a positive impact.
For over two decades, I’ve witnessed the profound transformation that happens when people drop their conditioning and reconnect with their authentic Self. Through this work, I've had the immense privilege of seeing marriages saved, singles attract deeply aligned partners, and deep relational conflicts dissolve—all through open, intimate, and vulnerable communication.
It is my honor and pleasure to guide you through your most challenging relationship situations, helping you emerge not just delighted with what you discovered about yourself, but truly inspired in your capacity for deep intimacy and authentic connection.
Tell me what you want to experience in your relationships and intimate life, and I'll help you make it happen.
Your Transformation Can Be Breathtakingly Fast! How fast?
Within a few sessions you can have a completely different relationship to yourself and how you show up for others.
Within weeks you can turn the most challenging relationship situation around and create harmony, alignment, and genuine excitement for your future—whether together or on a new path.
Within 3 months you step into completely new territory leaving behind the past and experiencing unprecedented levels of freedom, empowerment and intimate fulfillment.
Big shifts can happen fast because this work isn't about linear, slight improvements, it's a cascading, 'positive disintegration' of everything that has limited your authentic Self -expression and the power of being you, now.
This decoding, deprogramming and deconditioning process allows you to unplug from the matrix, and become the author and creator of your intimate reality with new levels of ease and mastery.
Many clients I have worked with report a feeling of deep relief and freedom from relationship torment, an empowered optimism about love and connection and a new and exciting take on who they are in relationships.
This is where you discover what's possible and expand your capacity for authentic connection more than you ever imagined!
Somatic and Ontological Exploration: A unique and powerful combination for Lasting Transformation.
Real, lasting transformation unfolds in the 'what you don't know you know' domain—the unconscious patterns, the subtle truths deep within you that need to be released.
The Somatic Exploration: We attune to the body and the emotional realm. This is where we integrate the unaligned parts of yourself that have caused conflict, torment, and the physical 'triggers' that inadvertently pushes away the connection you truly desire.
The Ontological Exploration examines the nature of your being: the deep-seated stories you tell yourself about who you are and what is possible. We get down into the dark and dirty to see what's been holding you back, sabotaging your relationships, and undermining your capacity for real intimacy.
The Result: We dismantle the conditioning that affects your ability to give and receive love. Using powerful analogies, leading-edge character work, and simple yet profound frameworks, we make sense of these unconscious patterns—transforming them into powerful, aligned desire.
Perhaps you've felt a pull toward these truths before, but found them too difficult or painful to navigate alone. I provide the steady, non-judgmental container needed to explore these depths safely.
My promise to you is simple: "I'll be there beside you every step of the way, and I'll go as far and as deep as you're willing to go."
The Deep Change Process: A Road Map to Self-Realisation
Are you ready for the deep dive?
For over 30 years, I've been meticulously documenting and mapping the profound truths and deep conditioning patterns we face within ourselves—charting them into distinct stages of realisation.
This led me to what I call the Realisation of Realisations.
This mapping makes your journey of self-discovery clear, simple, and highly effective.
Instead of getting lost in surface-level mental clutter, we cut straight to the deeper undercurrents of your growth and evolutionary journey. It's here that we integrate those essential parts of your "Self" with surprising speed and ease—simply by removing what’s in the way.
Through a subtle mix of coaching, training, and my committed partnership, I help you own what's real and true for you.
This is where the magic happens: you step into a greater sense of purpose, a greater sense of you, and the profound impact you desire in all your relating.
Through this process, you will experience:
Deep skill in intimacy and the ability to create profound connection.
Magnetic presence and enhanced charisma that naturally attracts aligned partners.
Authentic relationships that make your experience of life a pleasure to behold.
Deep satisfaction with who you are in love and life.
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What We'll Explore Together
Through a subtle mix of coaching, training, and my committed partnership, you'll be guided to:
- Come to a deeper understanding of what truly inspires you in relationship
- Heal past hurts so they no longer block your intimacy experiences
- Enhance your erotic energy, presence and integrity to be truly magnetic
- Develop your communication skills to create exhilarating intimacy
- Own your deepest desires without shame or conditioning
My role is to provide a safe, supportive environment where it is totally okay for you to explore your deepest challenges, needs and desires around intimacy and relationships—and to own and align with what's real and true for you.
If you are ready to begin your exploration, click the button below and book a call to find out more.
Reveal, celebrate and truly own your Self.
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"Before doing Ian’s coaching program I was going through a marriage breakup and was confused and miserable. On completion of the program I feel in control of my life and know where I’m going. I feel my own pain and I feel happiness again. Much more readily. With that the torment has gone and I have gained a lot of freedom to be ok with what life sends my way. I have been able to navigate through the emotional minefield of settlement with a level of ease I hadn't thought possible. Though it is challenging, I'm not attached and it feels good! Ian gets me, is very intuitive, and knows what pace to take me."
Tony C - TJ Carter Accountants
"I recommend Ian Nesbitt as an extraordinary coach. From his own work with many people over many years, he has landed on a very effective process. In my time I’ve read many wise books, but I would have never gotten to this point/level without Ian's coaching. He’s not like a counsellor who just lets you do the talking but instead coaches you through a step by step process of deeper Self awareness. Ian encourages you with a hand on your shoulder through a process in which the head can forget the books its' read, and the heart and gut have a chance to speak truth. Without his firm guide to keep me on target, I would have stepped off the track lost my way. He always kept a sharp eye for the truth and wouldn’t let me get away with my mental escape routes to hide in rationalising or other forms of avoidance. He wasn’t interested in my diversions or distractions but was unstintingly laser sharp at keeping me on track and asking the penetrating questions and monitoring signs of progress in my answers."
Tony B - Director of Mission, Calgary Health Care
"I recently had a "Get Real" session with Ian which was excellent. During the session Ian helped me relax and connect to a deeper intelligence within. I found it really helpful and powerful and got deep insight at an experiential level about how to live in a more empowered way and consistently operate from that place. Since then my business has really taken off and I have a new level of clarity and confidence around what my goals are and my ability to reach them. Ian really creates a safe space for this whole experience. Highly recommended"
Chris B - Business Owner & Facilitator
Ready to End The Inner Conflict and Torment?
If you're ready to experience the relief and excitement of the breakthrough you didn't know you were seeking, then let's get you started with a complimentary Discovery Call. Click the button below and let's connect!